You see it all started when I started ignoring her, the main reason was because I can't accept her overreacting characteristics. I planned to tell her all of this by the semester break. She insist me to tell her right away which I eventually did. After that day things was looking rather smooth till it came to last night when I was at the beach with a few of my classmates. She called me so I answer it. As usual she started raising her voice at me. But then the problem is actually is between her and another classmate. So, why on earth must she come and bother me? I have a mouth which I can talk to anyone. Plus, I'm not telling bad things about you... I'm just sharing my feelings with them.
At first I thought, what's the point of being friends if you could only bring me nothing but trouble and quarrels. But then, think again, is it fair for you? Do you deserve to be left out so sudden? I thought I would give it another shot and see how things go. But then things got worst, you even pulled AJ into this situation which really brought the steam out of me.. What makes you think that you can compare yourself to AJ? 1st of all, she's the best friend I ever had, I know her longer compare to you. 2nd, the things I quarrel with her is just small matters. Plus, she doesn't come screaming or shouting at me when there's a problem. She would ask me politely what is my problem and we'll discuss it and settle it as soon as possible. So, don't you ever think of comparing yourself to someone which is way more better than you.
After a few sms, you said you don't wish to talk to me and you needed sometime, so I gave it to you. Just now when you sms me I was busy with my assignment. In your 1st message you stated that you want to know why after I ignored you I keep on look at the bad side of you. Before I can reply that message, as usual you jumped into conclusion and said you know that I don't want to be friends with you. Without investigating you said that I ignored your sms. At that time I totally lost my patience for the last time. You even start insulting your own self which I find it quite a joke. You can even call yourself a psycho which before I started this I never said it to you.
So since you don't want to be friends with me. Then so be it!!! Its not like you were my best friend or something. Without you I think I can get to mix around more often with my other classmates. So therefore our friendship is up to now only and thats all. Hope you have a better life in the future and can actually find a friend that can suit your style. If you still need my help or anything at all, you still can call me and I'll do what I can. Till then its goodbye and take care.
Peace Off
Vikram
7 comments:
Such a bitch!!! Told you already dear this will happen soon or later. You made he right choice... stay happy always... by the way this is the 1st time i'm commenting on your blog. So when you comeback remember ok? Asia Cafe... hahahahahahahaha... hope to see you soon.
Dear friend, maybe you are just releasing your thought and anger on her. I am trying to think from your angle and find that it might not be a mistake for you to hate her, maybe its just all about misunderstanding and characteristic differences which you have your own understanding and way of making friend. However, putting a name of others and stated there clearly can actually resulting a person's reputation lost and bring her tremendous of interruptions in life, maybe you found a release of frustration in your life but you created miserable in her life. From the year she born until now of getting to know her in her 19 years old life, I know she is a very caring person and would do everything for her so call "best friend" whom maybe not be you anymore, please be more objective in your article and PLEASE do not state others name in your article again when you are in subjective and pissed off emotion. If you ever study about Cyber Law in advanced diploma in Public Relations or just go and flip through the text, you may trouble in defamation in this situation and how it actually can make someone to drawn in mental stress and depress.
P.S. by the way, talking bad about people or what you so call discuss with others about a particular person in that way is actually a form of creating rumours which is very very despicable.
And to Samantha, who leave a note there, despite freedom of speech that you have, think about it, will you confront her face to face? and tell her what is happening and tell her what you think directly? whispering at behind is contemptible action as well.
Dear Randomness,
I know as a sister you would help your siblings. But then think again, she was the one started it. I also warned her that if she keeps making problem I won't hold back anything and I'll let her had it all. This is my very 1st time doing this kind of thing and I don't regret it!!! You did mention about not talking bad at peoples back... Well that is what she is doing actually to you!!! Oh ya, I'm only studying Diploma right now, so don't talk to me about Advance Diploma. She is already a troubled person before I met her. At that time my classmates ask me not to mix with her because of her character. But then I thought you can't just judge someone by other people words. So I gave it a try, I treat her like how I treat my other friends. Nothing more, nothing less... It was she that said I treat her specially, but actually it was normal for me.But soon I realize the truth and decided to stop all of this. That's all... By the way I totally agree with you about Samantha's post... xD
what I can say is, still she sees you special before as you treat her very well, I was so glad that she found a good friend like you, maybe its a past tense right now, but honestly, I am glad for the lesson you taught her as in, as I can see, both of you having some mistakes, not just you and she does as well but the way to deal with it just shouldn't be in this way. I talked to her and read your blog and others blog as well, I quite understand about the situation and I shall say, you guys just needed sometimes to grow up, and by the time the wound is healed and everyone will learn a lesson from this, no matter how pain it was.
my take on it will be mistake will only makes a person better and I believe those who can see their mistakes will only be the winner.
Anyway, nice chatting with you ^_^
Frankly, I don't like to confront anyone, as I believe in everyone can be friend, so shake hand? have a nice day!
hahaha... sure.. thx for your advice anyway... Nice chatting with you too... its been a pleasure knowing you.
Whoa...u scared me vik!
i'm here to give a comment as well as i don't want you to get in any trouble =)
how could u write her name on it vik?I know u were in an anger but sometimes u have to give someone at least a way to continue her life right? trust me, delete her name and you don't need to delete ur post coz u're just releasing your anger..
just leave her alone and ur life will be great and it won't affect u too rite?
If you want her to hv a better life ^^
i noe u can do it vik~
be happy always!
kindly,
shelby
okok done!!!
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